How to Find them online?
How to find Find women who are seeking men for online dating If you are to busy, married, in relationship or something else, then probably don’t have time or simply can’t go at places described J In that case you can try online, many women and girls who are seeking guys and men have same problem: they are also using Internet to find someone for…you know J Any case, this is list that I am updating every few weeks, mean on list of sites that works best for me, so you can try to, maybe they will be good for you to to find women which want adventures. On the other side, if you can move “freely” , then back on top and see where you can find women who are seeking fun without using web sites and Internet ("old fashioned" ways).
We are focused on USA, UK and Canada hookup sites, but many of sites that we are review and rate are also worldwide used. So you can find information on how to get sex locally using site or app, no matter where from you are.
Site | Rating | My Description & notes |
 (5/5) | This month favorite, new "raising" star, had few great hookups, for now most time I am spending on uLust, hope they will stay good as they are now. | |
| (5/5) | Very good, we started to test this hookup site few weeks ago and it have all chances to be number one very soon, a lot of members, a lot of nice girls interested both for sex and for dating, different concept, one of favorite! | |
| (5/5) | Only hookup, new site, but very interesting, a bit different concept, worth of trying, highly recommanded! | |
| (5/5) | Like very much Affair Alert, leverege is about (just my opinion, not offical data) is 4:6 (female: male), very solid for now. | |
 (4/5) | If you ask me this is best pick! All are from ~30-55 y/o, they know what they are looking for! At this site I find 1-2 new different partners monthly. So A+++++ from me. | |
| (4/5) | New, nice, Free, works as some kind of facebook app, but it is descreen, you frineds and family, girlfriends or wifes can't see that :) Works best for USA and Canada, you even don't nee to open account, it is enogh to login with your Facebook userp/pass, recommanded. | |
| (5/5) | Focused on female audince 25 - 45, very good male:female ratio, on of raising stars when it comes to hookup sites. | |
| (5/5) | A bit different concept, added in Sep / 2018, we are looking at it, for now looks very good, almost no fake or inactive profiles, aprox. 1:2 male to female ratio. | |
| (5/5) | Some of girls are really hot and they receives probably thousands of messages what "influence" on their altitude, so many of those hottest will not respond to you, but other, young and average looking will answer and it is not hard to arrange meeting or one night stand... | |
| (4/5) | Pure hookup site, one of the best due to fact they have large user base and ~30% are women. | |
| (5/5) | As it name says, totally focused on finding ONS partner without too much formalities. | |
| (5/5) | One of first sites I tested, 7 years ago, maybe more, they didn't change too much in layout (site is a bit conservative designed) but user base (women to man ratio) is excellent. | |
| (4/5) | Raising star, we are tracking only few weeks this site, but very clear, simple for usage, very low level of fake profiles pollution for now, so this site pretends to get even 5/5 if we see this trend continue in next 5-10 weeks. In that case we will add some more description... | |
| (5/5) | Interesting and very fresh when it comes to concept, a lot of "shiny" people, who need opposite sex partner, even a lot of couples can be found there, ideal for single people who are not afraid, know what they want and ready to experiment for similar kind of persons. | |
| (5/5) | Optimized for any kind of mobile device. Idea is to find people near you. We got some reports that works very good among people who are traveling a lot. For now, this is for any usage very good hookup sites. | |
| (5/5) | Excellent and real dating site (not hookups, real searching for soul mate) , but only for US males who want to connect with Ukraine women. | |
| (2/5) | Good for dating and free, but very hard to find local sex partner | |
Where are all those girls and women looking for some fun?Women are just like men when it come to sex: they want some excitement, adventure and sex, but they usually are not so direct as males are. No matter are they single, married, divorced, older or younger, they have same (sex) needs as we males do, simply looking for sex as males but just do that on bit different way. Keeping that fact in mind when approaching any girl or women will dramatically increase your chances to get sex , one night stand, affair or f-buddy with / from any lady. All you need, to find, and get any of them, is just to think how would you act on their place? Where you would seek for males? Understand facts related to their lives and you will easy get to the point.
Take a look what is the best place and time to find...
Where to find Single Women Seeking MalesThis category is easiest to find, they are free (single), they are ready to show their status (relationship status = single), they are going out to meet someone and don’t “masking” that fact, and we can say that free women are group where is easer to find "something".
Usually women and girls in this group will accept flirting and maybe before you approach them they will send clear signals they are seeking man for dating, sex, or something else. (look at resources for example to see something about female sex tourism) They don’t have wedding ring, so that is one more important thing too look at when you meet this kind of women. If you are shinny, you can always try to find single girls online. Generally, you don’t even need to impress them, they want some fun, they want to enjoy their freedom, they want great sex and fun times, so be yourself and when one say no just proceed to another girl.
Best places to find them : at work, clubs, pubs, vacations (beaches), street, library, bookstore, coffee shops( especially on friday nights)
Where to find Married Women seeking menMarried women are most active casual sex /affair seekers , but they are also hardest-to-find group, due to nature of marriage: they do not go out at Friday and Saturday night. When you meet married women, it is very important NOT to rush, let them to lead a game. They don’t want to risk their marriage and to get into affair, such kind of older and younger females need to be sure that you are nice and decent guy / man, who will not fail in love and try to ruin their marriage, so with married women, just go slowly and respect their wishes, time schedule and everything else. Generally speaking, when married women wants you for lover you will be her lover, but convince her that you are THE guy, the she do not need even to think that you will make any problems with her marriage, show that you are discreet and that you accept all rules she asks, simply show her that she will get what she is looking for.
Best places to find them : at any of activities that married women (mom) doing like: taking kids to school, kids soccer games, etc and internet sex dating (cheating) sites .
Where to find Young girls looking for menEasiest group to find and seduce and get in bed: they go out a lot, they very actively look for men and they want some fun in their life. With single young girls, it is easiest to have good time and good sex, they are still not obsessed with “real life” problems, loans, family…
Usually they are smiley, like to flirt and have that “seducing” look, which says “I am looking for nice boy for fun or anything else”. In younger years, they like to experiment, change a lot of males, fulling around, so if you are less than 35-40 y/o you will probably have most success with this group of girls (young women).
Best places to find them : beach (summer time), internet sites, chats and forums, clubs, college, every other place where young people going out
Where to find Older women looking for menOlder, but single (or divorced) women, can give you most pleasure when it comes to adventure or just sex: they are experienced, they know a lot about sex, they always seeking for new pleasures since they have in mind time that clocking against them and they are usually very good looking women!
Actually, most people who are sending a message (contact ) us, have a question like "how to hook up with an older lady (or MILF). Older women up to 50-60, sometimes, even more, have sexual needs and in some cases better sex drive than in the 30s. It has some explanations for why their sexuality works that way but for now, it is not important for us. It is important to know where to find them and how to approach them when you find.
With this group of females it is very easy to hookup in case they like you, in case that specified women don’t like you, then is better to proceed to next one. They know what they want and they are ready to give you what you want, you can’t treat them as younger girls who are much easier for manipulation.
Best places to find them : marketplace, seminars (hotels), jobs, clubs and online sites where cougars seeks younger males.
Where to find Divorced women who are seeking menDivorced women who are seeking men can be very grateful for casual dating, but on the other side can be a bit dangerous since a certain number of divorced women looking for new marriage and sex is a way to get that
You can find them on those sites, but be careful, keep in mind fact that they may want marriage from you, so the best way is to go slowly and see is women really interested only in casual sex partner or something more. In first case, it is best to not ask too many questions about her past or future. It is highly recommended to explain to divorced women that you want sex, and you don't have a problem if she has sex with other people. Try to make some kind of deal, so-called "Friends With Benefits".
Your Comments and Questions...Here are some of comments and questions from my readers, if you want to say or ask something feel free to contact me.
Fast , simple and useful Hookup and Dating tipsBefore reading those few tips that according to a lot experience really can help you, here is what is interesting, from last year more than 20 message received from female population, and all messages claim same thing: that such love and hookup advice are BS, that people who write such things are J***s,and so on, what was very inspiring since human (especially female) psychology react on truth they don't like, so hope those tips will help you to become at least a bit better in seduction.
#1 - Be very direct and self confident because You have nothing to loose! No matter you are trying online or other way, always remember that you have nothing to loose! So be direct, act like you know what you want, don't give them time to think. If you want to date her or hookup with her just be direct, worst thing can happen is to dump you, so? Just keep walking. If you approach to 5 girls in one night at least 1 will be yours, again keep that in mind!
#2 - Be mysterious. If you decide to try with online dating and hookups, when you creating profile, put provocative photo, leave some details about you undisclosed, women like mystery guys. Ask them, listen them when you start conversation and don't talk too much about yourself. When you go from site to texting, sometime response immediately sometime after few hours or even days. I don't know why this works with both girls and women, but it works.
#3 - Be generous! No matter that mostly of women today insist to pay own part of dinner or whatever, don't try to argue with her, simply pay everything and give waiter a (nice) tip in front of her. Many girls will argue with you after such gesture, but act as you don't care and in first next situation do the same. Like previous thing, I don't know WHY but this works for whole my life, with both older and younger women. I think they like to see men which pays everything, but today's culture promote women who pays own part, any case, just do it, and tell her "Ok, you will pay next time". Off course next time you will do the same thing.
#4 - Be patient. Be patient, women don't like guys who desperately need sex. That is how they see the thing, a desperate man is a man who had no sex for long period. Women like guys who can have sex whatever they want, that is something in woman nature. They are attracted to guys who have a lot of choices. The best way is to pretend that you are more interested in her hobbies, career, parents, pets, and hobbies that to talk about sex, her sexual needs, habits, and fantasies. Simple that is how women functioning.
The Other side of coin...Also, look at other side, few horror stories that can happen in online hookups, I don not want to scare you just keep this in mind: be careful ! :)
Basically, if you are keeping in mind that you must use condoms you will not have problems nor personal nor with persons you had casual sex. As you know condom protects from pregnancy and STDs so having condoms in the pockets is a perfect solution for safe hookups and full pleasure and peaceful mind.
Related links... https://nypost.com/2017/05/17/why-older-women-and-younger-men-are-a-perfect-match/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cougar_(slang)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_sex_tourism
Older Women, Younger Men: Self and Stigma in Age-Discrepant Relationships(University of Kansas, 26 pages, published 1996)
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